The hardest thing at times in life is living through our mistakes and coming out the other side a better individual. I was born on the east coast… Plainfield, New Jersey. The son of a pastor, yes a “PK”. I come from a big family of 13 siblings. At the age of 11 my parents moved us to Wisconsin and I had just round a little girlfriend. Broke my little heart to move. 

I’ve been married before, but was too immature to realize what I had. Made a lot of mistakes as I lived in the shadows of being a pastor’s kid. Had to learn that the character of a man is not built on his mistakes, but the opportunity he takes to learn from them and become a better man. That’s why I own my mistakes and in turn grow from them. I’m nonjudgmental and believe in showing respect no matter what. 

It’s been 15 years in prison and it’s been my relationship with God and not focusing on the lie that got me here has been the key to getting me through this. I’m unapologetic with my relationship with God. This situation has not made me a bitter, but better man. I love to communicate. I truly believe that a great conversation can be as good as your favorite dish “food”. I’m also a good listener. High school & college grad.

More now than ever before I value women that’s why I’m not looking to play with love. I’m looking for love to even through loneliness. I’m optimistic that there is a queen out there for me. Being a gentleman is the most important thing to me.

“While you don’t get to pick the storms and trials we will face in life, we do get to pick the attitude we go through it with.”